Why Humility Is The Missing + Essential Ingredient for Most Couples
Humility is the absence of conceit or pride, and in a relationship, it's an absolute essential.
Listen to this mini pod so you don't conflate healthy self-efficacy with pride and so you also don't conflate humility with shame.
The truth is, and I hope you already feel and know this deeply, you are beloved, but guess what?
Others on the journey are too, even though they struggle in different ways than you, and yes, this includes your partner!
When we level the playing field instead of the most common marriage stance of the fundamental attribution error that otherwise says, “I am a bit healthier than they” or “I do a bit more than they do”…
We not only gain humility but also patience and gratitude (yes, it's been statistically measured by expert Everett Worthington) as well!
Keep shining and learn to cultivate it in several steps, both generally and type by type in today's mini-pod!